Maybe you’ve decided to wait a few more days. Maybe you’ve convinced yourself you’ll tell them after you’ve figured everything out. For many young women, telling their family is more intimidating than the positive pregnancy test itself.
Identify What You’re Afraid of Most
Whether it’s fear of disappointing your family or of being pressured into a decision before you’re ready, knowing what you’re afraid of can help you prepare for the conversation.
Choose One Person to Start
If the idea of telling your entire family feels overwhelming, start with the person you’re most comfortable talking to, whether that’s a parent, sibling, or another trusted relative.
Opening up to one person first can make the next conversation feel less intimidating. It also gives you someone who understands what’s happening and may be able to support you as you tell the rest of your family.
You Don’t Have to Make a Decision Right Away
Your family may ask what you’re planning to do, but it’s okay if you don’t have an answer yet. Before making a permanent decision, take time to learn more about your pregnancy by taking to one of our trained staff.
Share With Confidence
Don’t assume you know how the conversation will end before it begins. If you’d like to talk through your concerns before telling your parents, schedule a confidential options consultation. We’ll answer your questions and discuss the options you’re considering.
When your family starts asking questions, it’s easier to answer them when you have accurate information about your pregnancy. When you’re ready, you’ll be better prepared to answer your family’s questions and explain why you’re taking time to consider your next step.
Schedule an appointment today.